Right wing republicans may be your answer to the above question, but no I am talking about this whole adventure we are on. 99% of the feedback we have received from lesbians, straight guys, and straight girls has been supportive and loving. Gay men, however, look at us like we have told them that we want to marry women and convert to the Church of Latter Day Saints. So I have to wonder where all of this comes from. If people who HAVE children think it is a good idea and can be supportive, what is it about this decision that freaks out our gay male friends?
Now, I have a tendency to be a tad bit dramatic. So of course I immediately think that this must have something to do with me. I know. I know. HOW on earth could that be the case? But I do. I was speaking to my most favorite of all my pet lesbians about this M. M has an amazing ability to play devil's advocate, and help me to view things from other people's point of view. Today her answer was simple. "F them" she says. And of course I had to question myself about why their opinions matter so much.
I guess it comes down to this. Tony and I have weighed this decision, researched this decision, talked to counselors, friends, and God. We are well past the contemplation period. I just want our friends to keep their opinions to themselves and support our decision. We know our limitations and obstacles.
So there! na na na na boo boo! HMPH!